Code of Luck: How to Stop Being a Victim and Become a Creator

We often talk about luck. Why does someone always seem to be lucky, while others are perpetually left behind? The answer is amusingly simple: we attract what we emit outward. I constantly observe this in sports, for example, in hockey. There are players who come very close to victory but never win. It’s as if they are afraid to win. I could be mistaken, but this is exactly what has been happening with the Edmonton Oilers for two consecutive seasons. From a psychological perspective, it’s as if they cannot believe they are capable of winning. In their subconscious, there is a thought: “No, this happens to others, not to me.”

And so, when such a person approaches the point where they are about to achieve something, they themselves, at the level of a holographic game, manifest something that prevents them from winning. Although, it seems, victory was so close and easy. Such people are said to have a self-destruct button. Just when they were supposed to reach their goal… Where’s the button? Boom! And everything collapsed. What seemed certain turned to dust. The essence is that the person has defined themselves as a victim. How can one stop being a victim and become a Creator?

The reason for this is the energy we emit as a reflection of our mental and emotional state. We sabotage our own success because deep down, we believe we are unworthy of it. Our internal vibration, our fear, our disbelief in ourselves materialize in the external world as obstacles, “failures,” and setbacks. The world merely reflects what we transmit from within. We are the projector, and life is the screen. And if what appears on the screen is something we dislike, it is pointless to blame the screen.

The Power of Intention as an Energetic Magnet

However, there is another, creative force that serves as a serious energetic and magnetic attraction to reality. This is intention. When you clearly articulate:

• Here’s what I intend to achieve.
• Here’s what I intend to do.
• Here’s what I will do,

you begin to emit this intention as a powerful vibrational field. And this field, like a magnet, attracts everything you need to realize it. All the necessary people, all the necessary circumstances, all the resources.

But it is at this stage that most people falter. Because to fulfill the stated intention, they need to go through things they are not particularly eager to face. The path to the goal often lies through discomfort, through breaking old habits and beliefs, through stepping out of the comfort zone. Frightened by difficulties, many say: “Ah, forget it! I didn’t really want it anyway” — and return to their usual games. They betray their intention, and their world remains the same.

The Law of Attraction: More than Just Visualization

When we finally decide to transform, our energy field begins to change. And then the things we attracted to ourselves in our old state cease to resonate with us. In the world of the holographic game, this manifests as changes: old relationships break, you lose an unloved job, you move. Your life in the projected reality changes because the source projecting it — you — has changed.

Therefore, when you launch the intention — “I want to expand my Consciousness, I want to open my mind, I want to connect with the true greatness of my ‘self’” — situations come to you that you may not always like. But they are necessary to break down your internal limiting structures and fulfill that intention.

Why Visualization Doesn’t Work for Everyone

The idea that if you constantly visualize a Ferrari, it will somehow appear in your life is only a small part of the truth. You can cover your entire house with pictures of that car, but it won’t work if your true journey, what you came here to experience, does not synchronize with owning a Ferrari.

The law of attraction is not just images in your head. It is the energy field we create that attracts a certain reality to us. And this field consists of many factors. The problem is that the Universe does not respond to a single thought or beautiful image you hold in your mind for a few minutes a day. It responds to your cumulative vibrational frequency. And this frequency is made up of everything: your conscious thoughts, but to a much greater extent — your:

• subconscious programs,
• deeply rooted beliefs,
• suppressed emotions and fears.

Your subconscious broadcasts a signal 24 hours a day, while conscious visualization is just a brief burst. Which signal is stronger? The answer is obvious. You can imagine a Ferrari as much as you like, but if in your subconscious there is a program saying “I am unworthy of wealth,” “money is evil,” or, even more commonly, a hidden fear of success and that very “self-destruct button,” then it is this program that will shape your reality. The Universe is not confused; it simply reflects your dominant, deep signal with absolute accuracy.

From the perspective of the Soul, a successful “manifestation” is to attract a challenge that will make you stronger, not a car that will allow you to avoid that challenge. Therefore, the law of attraction always works for everyone, without exception. The only question is what exactly it attracts: the fleeting desires of your ego or the necessary lessons of your Soul. True creation of reality is not an attempt to make the world give you what you want. It is the process of becoming the person for whom the desired reality is a natural and harmonious reflection of their inner essence.

The Combination of Factors: What Your Energy Field Consists Of

Our energy field is a complex cocktail. It includes our state of awareness — the range of frequencies we have access to. It is also influenced by planetary and stellar factors at the moment of our birth — what astrology studies. We come into this world at a specific time, receiving a unique energetic imprint that differs from that of someone born at another time.

Additionally, there is our Soul’s journey. We come here with a certain amount of “coding” that guides us through life, sometimes throwing challenges at us that we respond to even without realizing it. All of this together — our awareness, astrological factors, Soul’s tasks — constitutes that unique magnetic pattern, that vibrational field that we project into the world and which, in turn, shapes our reality.

The Greatest Gift Wrapped in a Nightmare

Looking back on my life, I have often asked myself: “Why me? What have I done?” I remember in the early 2000s thinking: “Why is all this coming at me from everywhere?” I screamed: “Oh God, why? I’m just trying to live normally! What the hell is going on?”

But now I look back and see that that nightmare was the greatest gift for me. Often, the biggest gifts come to us disguised as terrifying nightmares. We are who we are not in spite of what has happened to us — both pleasant and unpleasant — but because of it. It is these events that have brought us to our current state.

“Why Me?”: A Question Leading to Power

In my life, as in everyone else’s, there was a time when I worried about how people perceived me. Even as I grew older, we often worry about how others see us. When I worked on the railroad, I was very concerned about whether people liked me. We seek external approval to soothe our insecurity. But when I went through a hail of mockery in that structure, especially in the 2000s, it was a real nightmare. I couldn’t go anywhere without being subjected to mocking looks. And yet, as a result, I completely rid myself of the need for approval and the fear of what others might think of me. That terrifying experience became my liberation.

When we ask the question “Why me? Why does this always happen to me?”, it is a great question because it brings us back to the source. The power is here, within us. When we understand that the projection comes from the Soul, we realize: if we change this, then the projection — our holographic, physical experience — will change accordingly. Life changes not “out there,” outside, but “in here,” inside. My life experience allowed me to calmly endure any mockery and insults during work. I simply stopped caring about all those external manifestations of other people. My reality changed because I changed.

Exiting the Matrix: Shifting the Point of Assembly

Very often, our worst nightmares are our greatest gifts. Transitioning to another level of Consciousness is moving our “point of assembly” (read Carlos Castaneda) from the state of “inside” this holographic, suppressed reality to the level experienced by people during out-of-body experiences. From that perspective, our world looks completely different.

If we manage to shift the “point of assembly” of this reality while we are still in it, then everything will change. The problems we want to solve can be altered because our level of Consciousness will rise above the level that created those problems. We need to shift our “point of assembly,” and then everything will change. It cannot be otherwise.

The Source of Projection is Within

Interestingly, all these things — astrological factors, our level of awareness, the aura field, life journey, the question “why me?” — they all have one common feature: they all come from within, not from outside. There is no such thing as “outside.” All of this comes from within.

And what do manipulators want from us? For us to constantly look outward. They encourage us to find someone to blame when something is wrong in our lives. We think, “You are to blame, you are responsible for this.” But what does this really mean? By saying this, you declare: “You have my power. I do not control my own life; you do. Since you are to blame, you have power over me.” We constantly give our power away to others.

We act as if we are watching a movie in a theater, and when we don’t like what’s happening on the screen, we start yelling at it: “Hey! I don’t like this movie! Change it!” But it’s just a projection! It can’t be changed by yelling. The projector is behind. If you want to change the movie, go to the projector and change the film. But what do we do every day? We yell at the damn screen because it’s easier to think that someone else is to blame. We talk about controllers and manipulators, but a handful of people cannot control billions unless billions allow it. Responsibility — let’s take it back.

The Art of Grooming Yourself, Not the Mirror

Imagine another situation that could be called, for example, “grooming the mirror.” If you want to comb your hair, you don’t comb your reflection in the mirror, do you? It won’t affect anything because it’s just a reflection. If you want to change your hairstyle, you comb your real hair, and the mirror just reflects the result.

Our physical reality is a mirror. And we are constantly grooming the mirror, and then we wonder: “Why isn’t my hairstyle changing? I keep combing and combing!” The reality we experience is merely a reflection of what is inside us. The power belongs to the harmony of Consciousness, Soul, and Spirit, which in turn is connected to the body.

Transferring Power Through Blame

When people say: “Wait a second. How did I create this situation? How can I neutralize it?”, power returns to us. Thank you, I take it back. You are not to blame, and I am not to blame either. I am simply using my knowledge to change the reality I do not like. You have no power over my life; it belongs to me. This is a completely different position with a top-down perspective, rather than a straightforward view from the front. Now I am changing my life because I control it, not external influences.

Gandhi once said: “You must be the change you wish to see in the world.” You must be because you are your world. And together we all are the whole world. Therefore, when we change, the world changes. If we do not change, the world cannot change because the world is us, and we are the world.

But what are we constantly made to do? Look for blame outside. This is the most insidious and effective trick to take away our power. Why is it so effective? Because blame gives the illusion of moral righteousness and relieves us of the burden of responsibility. It is much easier to point a finger and say “It’s because of you that my life didn’t work out!” than to look inside yourself and ask: “What is my internal process, what belief or fear projected this situation outward?” The first path is the path of a child looking for someone to blame. The second is the path of a sovereign creator of their reality.

But there is a way out. It begins the moment you stop this flow of blame and take your power back. This does not mean you should start blaming yourself — that is just the other side of the same coin of powerlessness. It means accepting full responsibility for your projection. You say: “Thank you, I take my power back. You are not to blame. I am no longer playing this game. I acknowledge that I am the source of everything that happens to me, and since that’s the case — I have the power to change it.” In that moment, you stop being the effect and become the cause. You take the brush from the one it was handed to and start painting your picture of the world yourself.

The Rise of the Right Hemisphere: The Crime of Being Different

At the energetic and holographic level, this shift means moving from the left hemisphere of the brain to the right. This is if we think metaphorically and accept some scientific facts about the functions of our brain. There is no need to evict the left hemisphere; it is necessary for us to function in this reality. But it needs to be put in service of the higher reality, rather than allowing it to dictate what is real and what is not.

And for this, we need to learn to come to terms with the terrifying “crime” of being different. If you do not want to be different, if you are afraid to express your unique expression of everything that is, then beware of the right hemisphere and do not even think about transformation. Because that part of us that does not want to express uniqueness lives in the left hemisphere. It does not need uniqueness; it needs structure, conformity, rules. And the right hemisphere wants to express uniqueness: “Here I am. This is me. I am free.”

We constantly box ourselves in. When we meet someone, what do we say? “I am a coal miner.” “I am a journalist.” No, that’s just what you do on the outside; it’s not who you are on the inside. It would be wonderful if the dialogue went like this: “Hi, nice to meet you. Who are you?” — “I am everything that is, and here I am gaining experience.” — “Oh, me too! Nice to meet you!” That’s who we really are. When we realize this, we start to let go of the fear of being different, the fear of not fitting in. “Oh, what will mother say? Oh, what will the guys at work say?”

Freeing Yourself from the Chains of Others’ Expectations

Let me say this. If they — mother, father, family, colleagues, guys at the bar — cannot respect your right to express the full greatness of your true essence, then they can go to hell! All this “blood is thicker than water”… No. Between parents and children, there can be amazing relationships, but the mere fact of kinship guarantees nothing. At this level, we are all consciousness, a unified Consciousness. This does not mean that one consciousness should submit to another simply because they are “parent” and “child” in the holographic game.

This is the greatest liberation because the fear of “what will people say” is the wall of the most reliable prison in the world, the prison of normality. It has no physical bars; its walls are woven from disapproving looks, condemning whispers, and the fear of being cast out from the “pack.” Most people are voluntary prisoners of this prison. They desperately fear committing the “terrible crime of being different.” This fear lives in our Soul, which is weak and therefore, by definition, corrupt. It sees uniqueness as a threat to order, chaos. And this inner jailer constantly whispers: “Sit still. Don’t stick out. Be like everyone else. Otherwise, you will be rejected.”

Therefore, breaking free means rebelling against this deep programming. It requires colossal courage. It may lead to temporary conflicts and misunderstandings. I no longer have conflicts, but the relationships in my family are no longer as they used to be. I have cut some people out of my reality altogether. But the alternative is a slow spiritual death, a life lived as a pale copy of others’ perceptions of you. When you say “no” to their expectations, you say “yes” to yourself. And this is not selfishness. It is an act of the highest respect for your unique essence. You must be yourself, whether they like it or not.

You need to break free from subservience and gain freedom. If you cannot respect my right to be myself, then you will have to step aside because I will be myself, whether you like it or not. And the amazing thing is that when you truly start to do this, many around you come up and say: “Well, I understand.” And if not — let it be. See you in another dimension.

The Reality of the Deathbed: What Really Matters?

We constantly come up with excuses for why we do not do what is necessary to achieve what we have declared ourselves. We find trivial reasons:

• “Oh, I would do this, but today is the Super Bowl.”
• “I would like to tell those around me that they will no longer suppress me, but I don’t want to upset anyone; I will do it next week.”

And this can go on indefinitely. But we either want to be free or we don’t. The list of excuses will never end.

Therefore, I propose a simple test. There is something called “the reality of the deathbed.” Imagine: you are lying on your deathbed. You have ten minutes left to live. You look back on the years you have lived. What from all that has so worried you, that has caused you terrible stress, that has made your life unpleasant, what of all this really matters in these last ten minutes?

The answer is absolutely nothing. Absolutely nothing. All these fears, anxieties, worries about what others will think — all of it is dust. The only thing that matters is how fully you were able to express yourself, how true you were to yourself, how free you were. So why wait for the deathbed to understand this? The power belongs to us. And we need to take it back right now.

Man Evgeny – blog author

I lived and studied abroad in New Zealand, taking English language courses. I lived and worked in South Korea in the fields and at sea. In total, I’ve visited four different countries, different from those where Russian is spoken. I’ve interacted with people from at least 20 different cultures, religions, and faiths. I share my experiences on my blog. I try not to judge or make any judgments, but I do draw conclusions.

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